I think that maybe it will sink in that there is nothing I can do to make myself understand somethings. I need to let go and move on. At the same time I hate leaving people I care about in such places. But since I don’t understand and am not sure I can or want to, I think it best to distance myself from it.
I just am not sure how to do so with out permently injuring my relationship with them.
I have done enought stupid things to hurt the relationship as it is, I just hope this is not another one, not that it is a dramatic shift of my current policy, but just a reminder to keep my mouth shut and accept things as not changeable.